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  The Story So Far
  

Hi,  Our names are Eric De Bruyn and Peter Nowosielski. We joined forces in 2009 after collaborating on a number of family projects. Eric was working for Relationships Australia at the time and Peter was working in the Psychiatry area. At that time Peter was also running a group for separated parents. Peter went through his own marriage break up and did not know what to do and who to turn to. Hence, from this process and experience it is what you finally see here today. We knew that being able to help people was not just about guiding people through the emotional roller coaster but also being able to support them through the legal minefield. It is about:

"Knowing enough about the battle to avoid the battle"

We started looking at the processes in family law and realised that most of it didn't make sense. We looked the end result and worked backwards from there. And it worked. Why on earth would you go down the Family law route to have someone else make decisions about you and your families future??? Really!! To invite high priced lawyers to negotiate on your behalf and get obscenely paid to not guarantee a result. Really!!!

We have worked tirelessly to uncover a way for people to separate amicably and you can too! As well as saving your family in the short as well as the long term you can literally save 10's of thousands of dollars. Not to mention the physical and emotional cost.

 

We have never understood why people travel down the legal course when it is much simpler to get through without them. The horror stories we have heard and seen are to be believed. The only winners in the end are the lawyers. 

 

These are some of the differences BETWEEN OUR SERVICES AND LAWYERS. 

The DRSC                                                                     Lawyers 
Non Adversarial                                                              Adversarial
Minimal cost                                                       High Cost involved
Family focused                                                           Client focused
Long term view/gains                                          Short term gain

Post Separation Support                        No post Separation Support
Promotes Amicability                            Adversarial Process

 

We want to share material and information with you so that you don't have to go through the trials of divorce so many people go through. This process can literally save you years of agony and turmoil ... 

Current research is finding that it is "not the fact people are divorcing that is detrimental to children but the way it the divorce is played out". 

 

And the number #1 thing that children want "is their parents to be amicable" and"not so much as to get along but be civil towards each other". 

 

So, we started looking at the processes in family law and realised that most of it didn't make sense. We looked the end result and worked backwards from there. And it worked. Why on earth would you go down the Family law route to have someone else make decisions about you and your families future???  To invite high priced lawyers to negotiate on your behalf and get obscenely paid to not guarantee a result!!! Hmmm!!! 

 

The number 1 question that we receive is... (Drum roll please)...

 

"I don't know what to do" ????

(We will give you a little tip.. and it is not to rush out and get a lawyer immediately but to try and remain calm in the sea of emotions and get some clarity about what to do next). 
That's why we are here. 
To give you 
• Right Information at the
    • Right Time with the
    • Right Planning in the
    • Right Emotional Frame of Mind and going down the
    • Right Route with the
    • Right Documentation for the
    • Right Reasons and creating the
    • Right Environment for success
How simple is that.. (NOT).. It is a very complicated process that is actually quite simple if you know what to do. 

 

That's why we have formulated these programs for you .